Sugar Daddy Arrangement Examples: Best Tips

April 29, 2019
Sugar Daddy Arrangement Examples: Best Tips

Many sugar babies, especially newbies, wonder about how to make an ideal arrangement with sugar daddies. Shall they announce their conditions in advance? Or shall they quietly wait for the offer from the sugar daddy’s side? Shall they ask for money or for gifts? Or shall they just things get solved on their own?

Here are a few examples of how to make an arrangement with a sugar daddy and feel comfortable.

1. Write down your expectations

Before you pronounce your demands, conditions or expectations to a sugar daddy (or before he asks you directly about them), think about what you want.

  • Do you want him to cover your tuition fees?
  • Do you want him to monthly pay your bills?
  • Or maybe you expect quarterly or weekly allowances?
  • Or maybe gifts would suffice you?
  • Or maybe you want as much as exotic tours to wild islands?

Write down what you need, but remember that you have to be specific. If you go for allowances, be clear with yourself about how much you need. If it’s about gifts, specify which kind of gifts you would like to get regularly — jewellery or SPA-salon certificates?

Once you know what you want, you will easily filter out those sugar daddies who don’t meet your expectations. You won’t stumble over your own words when the rich man asks you what you want and you won’t be disappointed or duped.

2. Adjust your sugar baby profile

Expecting that a sugar daddy raises the topic concerning your arrangement is a waste of time. Firstly, he might not do it thinking you don’t care about the financial side of your relationships. Secondly, you will have to go on first dates with many men who might not fit you, and you will realize it too late.

In order to prevent such embarrassing situations, let all sugar daddies know in which direction you’re moving — set the record straight in your profile. Many sugar dating sites provide a field for such descriptions. Use that opportunity! State that you expect $3,000 per month and you won’t have to waste your time on men who can afford only $1,500 monthly.

3. Discuss your expectations during the first date (not the second)

Stating what you need in the profile is good but not enough, though. You have to bring your conditions into the conversation during the very first date with a sugar daddy.

  1. Is your relationship going to be platonic or sexual?
  2. Will he provide you with financial support?
  3. How often will you meet?
  4. Are there any restrictions regarding dating other men?
  5. Are you allowed to show off about your sugar relationship in social media?

These are the questions to be discussed when making an arrangement with your sugar daddy. Be careful, however, not to turn your date into a job interview — it’s a relationship anyway. Keep things romantic, you have to impress the sugar daddy, so ask the questions you’re interested in unobtrusively but firmly.

So let’s recall the examples of sugar daddy arrangement one more time: first, you write down what you need (for yourself), second, you announce your expectations in the sugar dating profile (to filter out men who are none of your interest), third, discuss peculiarities with the sugar daddy face-to-face. That’s it!

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Let’s assume somewhere in a luxurious restaurant a stunning lady approaches you, claiming she’s a sugar baby. She tells you that she’s ready to give you anything in exchange for your financial support. Being charmed, you agree. She spends one night with you, you give her the money and then… she vanishes.

This is an example of a fake sugar baby. How not to get in the soup?

1. Fake sugar baby has no profile on a sugar dating site

Before agreeing for any kind of relationship with an unknown woman, check her on social media and sugar dating websites. If she doesn’t have a profile anywhere, well, it’s a red flag.

A real sugar baby, for the sake of her own safety, would rather approach you through the sugar dating website. There she will have detailed information about her views on sugar dating and expectations of a relationship.

There, you may also check her rating and see the reviews of other people. Professional sugar dating sites will even provide verification of her account so that sugar daddies stay safe.

2. Fake sugar baby’s profile on a dating site looks suspicious

Before you decide to send a request to a lady on a sugar dating site, check if:

  • She has high-quality photos with her face visible
  • Detailed personal data
  • Her account is verified
  • She has a high rating

Otherwise, you may end up approaching a scammer.

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3. A fake sugar baby asks you for money before the meetup

However, you shall be careful even if you are using a sugar dating site. Some girls will try to ask you for personal information (which is usually prohibited on such sites) in order to approach you on social media and beg for money.

Fake sugar babies will also ask you for your bank account and other bank details. They may ask you to send them the money in advance or tell you a «touching story» in order to steal your money.

Remember – no money before you set up a date and discuss all the details of your potential relationship with a sugar baby.

4. Fake sugar baby talks about marriage a lot

If you are already dating a sugar baby, pay attention to how she behaves. Does she talk a lot about how much she wants to get married?

Well, she’s a fake sugar baby. Probably, she’s testing you to see if you could marry her. If you do marry her, she could divorce you and get your money. An experienced and genuine sugar baby knows that your relationship is temporary and would not insist on marriage, taking advantage of your wallet.

5. Fake sugar baby avoids going public with you

Have you tried inviting your sugar baby on a bohemian event or to a well-known restaurant in the city centre? Does she keep skipping such dates and agrees only for private meetings? This is another ground for concern.

Your sugar baby might have screwed some other rich men in the city and doesn’t want to bump into them in public places. If it’s true, then she’s fake.

Watch out while searching for a relationship with no obligations and good luck!

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How To Be A Good Sugar Baby? 5 Secrets to Attract Your Dream Sugar Daddies

Being a sugar baby isn’t a super-easy thing. You have to handle many things (about yourself) to attract the best sugar daddies around. What do you need for that? Here are five secrets that will help you to become a good sugar baby.

Secret 1. Never be late

Being late for the date by thirty minutes (just because you couldn’t decide what to wear or because you were doing makeup for too long) is a highway to failure. Sugar daddies are typically busy men. They have their businesses, projects, negotiations and so on to carry. This is the reason why they resorted to sugar dating — they simply don’t have time to dive deep into a traditional relationship.

You can be a good sugar baby by respecting the precious time of your sugar daddy living a hectic life. Come to dates in time, leave when it’s appropriate and never bargain about getting more attention from him.

Secret 2. Don’t be clingy

It doesn’t matter if you start having feelings for your sugar daddy or not, it is better to never be clingy. Don’t chase after him, don’t disturb him with your calls and texting, don’t stalk him on social media or elsewhere. Otherwise, you may irritate and, therefore, lose him.

Give him your attention, but only when he asks for it or when you are 100% sure he is in need of it. 

Secret 3. Be attractive physically

Another secret of a good sugar baby lies in her attractiveness. You’re lucky if you have been gifted by natural beauty. But no matter what, you must take good care of your body to maintain that beauty.

Work out, get some massage, enjoy facial procedures, get skin and hair care, do your manicure, etc. All these small things will pay you back as you will get attracted by the best sugar daddy.

Secret 4. Watch your fashion

Dressing up well is another important aspect of luring the best sugar daddy. If you have no idea about how to dress up properly, turn to fashion magazines, online blogs or tips from professional stylists. Get your branded clothes in the best boutiques — sugar daddies will appreciate your efforts and give you more money!

Also, take into consideration your makeup. You shall not cover your face in layers of foundation and concealer, and your eye-shadows shall not be as bright as for the Brazilian carnival. At the same time, avoiding any makeup may not do you a favour, so always stick to the «golden mean» rule. 

Secret 5. Learn how to do the talking

Being a sugar baby doesn’t mean being an alive Barbie doll. To succeed, you need to show your personality and character. You need to know how to maintain the flow of conversation and be able to discuss such topics like art and even politics.

To improve, read a lot of books and watch good quality films (like dramas or documentaries). This way you will get some ideas for meaningful conversations with a sugar daddy. If you aren’t sure in your skills, practice with your friends, but most importantly, remain yourself and behave naturally.

These were five secrets of becoming a super sugar baby. Use them and good luck!

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